Are You Having Fun At Work?

Noel Coward said, “Work is much more fun than fun.”

How many of us can honesty say that they feel as Noel Coward did?  In my career, I have encountered many people who firmly believe that work is work and by definition should never be fun.  This group believes that one works in order to have fun.

Based on personal experience particularly during the past several years, I am an advocate of the “life is short philosophy.  Recently, I have really been reviewing various aspects of my life and asking myself is this something I really want to do.  What I have realized in this process is that we all have choices and we can choose to do what we want to do.  Granted, some people may not be happy with the choices we make and we may have a limited number of options from which to choose.  Yet, we still have choices.

Occasionally, I meet people who are miserable in their jobs.  For them, work is far from being more fun than fun.  When I suggest that they have options, they often look at me like I have two heads and give me a litany of excuses why they are stuck.  Yet, every once in a while, one surprises me.  That person says, “you know, I’ve been unhappy in this job for years and maybe it is time to make a move.

Imagine what life would be like if we could have our work be a fun part of our lives. I am interested in hearing stories from people who have made a choice to enliven their work lives.  Is anyone out there willing to share his or hers?

Thank you, Andrue…

On Saturday, December 1, 2007 at about 7PM CST, my dear friend Andrue Scott died peacefully at the Benedictine Care Center in Minneapolis, MN. Andrue had battled HIV-AIDS for more than 16 years. A 1966 graduate of NYC’s School for the Performing Arts, he always had an uncanny sense of timing. So by dying on World AIDS Day, Andrue was being Andrue until the end. What finally caught up with him was that sarcoma that had metastasized before his leg was amputated in June, 2004.

I met Andrue when he was managing the Barnes and Noble Music Department in downtown Minneapolis. I went in one day at lunch to purchase one opera , Puccini’s La Rondine and left with TEN operas and a new friend.

So why am I writing about Andrue who was born Drue Scott Oppenheim in Queens, NY on May 25, 1948 in a blog about working with others? Reader’s Digest had a feature entitled, “The Most Unforgettable Character I Have Ever Met. (Maybe they still do, I haven’t looked at an issue since Lyndon Johnson was president!) Andrue would be my subject if I were to write that essay today. He was very opinionated, somewhat assertive, and quite frankly, well, bossy! However, he had a certain wit and charm with which he could put people at ease and endear himself to many. His circle of friends included the rich and famous as well as the everyday regular people of the world. He was high on the likeability quotient.

There are at least two things we could learn from Andrue. The first is that he maintained that everything worth learning about in life comes from either a Broadway musical or a TV sitcom , and he could cite the exact show tune or episode to support his claim. Of course, this was back in the day when both musicals and sitcoms had substance. Second, Andrue always communicated directly , he said what he meant and meant what he said. I’ve maintained that if people could only communicate clearly with each other, many workplace issues would go away. So thank you Andrue for your friendship and what you have helped all of us to learn.

Some thoughts about the state of training….

About a month ago, I co-facilitated a workshop at a training conference.  As most conferences tend to do this one included a luncheon keynote speaker. Having played this role on many occasions, I can say with authority that I am not a fan of luncheon speakers.

Here’s why.  Most planning committees so highly structure a conference that there is very little time to connect with colleagues, share ideas, and meet new people in the field.  Usually these opportunities are available at 15-minute breaks or at those god-awful cocktail receptions. As Open Space Technology creator Harrison Owen noted years ago, the most interesting conversations usually occur outside the formal setting of a conference.

At this particular conference, the luncheon speaker gave a presentation on why lectures are de facto “bad and that “good’ trainers use a variety of gimmicks to “keep people engaged under the assumption that engagement equals learning.  The reason for this approach is that according to the presenter, television, with its ten-minute segments in between 3 minutes of commercials has conditioned everyone to only tolerate short periods of information exchange.  While the speaker was clearly professional and passionate about this approach, you’ve probably guessed by my tone that I was a little annoyed by the content.

In the spirit of full disclosure, I am a member of the American Society of Training and Development, and have been doing instructional design and training for about thirty years.  I completely support the importance of keeping the training class engaged and maximizing learning.

At times this session seemed like a mix of an out-of-control auction and the behavior of frenzied commodity dealers on the floor of the Chicago Board of Trade.  I see this disturbing trend in training in which sizzle gets rewarded over substance and feel like the training community is selling it’s collective soul because it is afraid to make training challenging.  Why do we have to “dumb down workshops just because network television has dumbed down what it offers in a format that conditions people to short sound bites instead of a deeper dialogue.  What is missing is the opportunity to reflect, to go deeper, to really promote understanding. I think it is important to find ways to make these activities more accessible.   And what was missing from this keynote was the presence of any opportunity for exchanging points of view on when this anti-lecture approach is NOT the best one.  From where I was sitting I found it interesting that there were a significant number of people who were not engaged in the activities being suggested by the presenter.

I know this entry may irritate some of my colleagues as much as the content of the presentation (not the speaker) irritated me.  However, I feel a need to put a stake in the ground and invite others to do the same.  I am all for making learning enjoyable and enlivening.  However, I want to do it in a way that does not sacrifice substance and that has respect for the intelligence of the learners.

Back to Work!

After a lengthy hiatus, www.workingwithothers.com is back.  Or more accurately, I am back with (hopefully) regular contributions once again.  Thanks to many subscribers who sent me emails wondering if I had dropped off the face of the earth. No, I didn’t.  I was just gathering more material and trying to practice what I’ve offered in this blog.